Then have the nerve to be ignorant and complain that the women on these sugar dating websites only want them for their money. Acting like they even have money to begin with.
What Is A Sugar Baby?
First of all, let’s explore what a sugar baby is according to Wikipedia. I love this website.
“A sugar baby is a person who receives cash, gifts or other financial and material benefits in exchange for company. It can include sex or intimacy, but it doesn’t have to. The paying partner is typically wealthier and older. A sugar baby’s male partner is often referred to not as a trick or a john but a sugar daddy, while the less-common female counterpart is a sugar momma.
The practice is sometimes called sugaring.
The online sites used for introducing people who may negotiate sugar arrangements are technically dating sites. Membership on one site in 2016 was $70 a month for sugar daddies, but free for sugar babies. What happens after the initial date, whether involving sexual or other activities, is between the parties.”
The Average Man Can’t Be A Sugar Daddy.
This is where the real issue stems from. Ever since sugar dating went mainstream, every Tom, Dick and Harry feels he has what it takes to be a sugar daddy and this is so no true. In all honesty, if you can’t cough up $10,000 a month for luxury of having a beautiful, young lady keep you company and never look back for that cash, then you don’t have what it takes to call yourself a sugar daddy.
You broke ass men feel like you are entitled to have a sugar baby on your arm, yet you don’t want to pay the cost to be the boss.
I have heard about a sugar daddy Facebook group where these disgusting and vile men are saying it is better to date a sugar baby because she is way cheaper than an escort. These men want these young women to have sex with them for $100 a pop. Sometimes even less than that amount. And the sugar baby better be happy about it or these men will get pissed off at her for daring to request more money.
Lord save all the sugar babies around the world from these cheap, ass men.
I read a sad sugar baby story on Reddit where all the sugar baby in question got for all her troubles was a milkshake. Do you hear that? A MILKSHAKE.
And then she was happy about it. That girl deserves 50 slaps to the face to wake her the fuck up. She was taken advantage of and doesn’t even know it.
Lord have mercy upon my soul, but some of you women are just not cut out for the job of being a sugar baby.
There Is No Such Thing As Free Sex.
These wannabe sugar daddies love to use the whole, “Oh I don’t want this to feel transactional,” just to escape without paying. Yet they still are not going to pay up after the sex is over. All these men want is free sex.
They see nothing wrong in getting the sex for free because it is a great benefit for them. Yet they want to get mad at these young women for looking out for their best interest while they too are looking out for theirs.
Sugar Daddy Dating Websites Need To Start Charging Premium Fees Only.
I feel like these sugar daddy websites should charge at least a $10,000 membership fee to keep the broke men out permanently. This will ensure that the sugar babies are not wasting time on men who can afford to be sugar daddies in the first place.
If I had the time and the resources, I would build a real sugar daddy dating website. These men would have to cough up a $10,000 membership fee. And if you are reading this and get mad about such a fee, that is enough proof that you don’t have the funds required to be a sugar daddy. That minuscule amount should not even make you lift one eyebrow.
There are too many men who just want to fuck and suck as many young women as possible for free and think nothing of it. This is not a mutually beneficial sugar dating relationship. Both parties must come out of this situation as equals. One should not be getting more than the other does.
What Is Your Job As A Sugar Baby?
You job is to pick the sugar that best fit all your needs. Ladies you have to vet these men for various reasons.
1. To make certain that he can afford to pay for the lifestyle that you want.
2. To make certain that he will pay for the lifestyle that you want. Just because he has the funds, don’t mean he will share it with you.
3. To make certain that he will not put you in harm’s way.
4. To make certain he won’t take you off your track.
5. To make certain he won’t waste your time.
How To Weed Out The Time Wasters?
Ladies start charging a meet fee. What is a meet fee? It is an amount you ask for in advance before leaving your home. I know some of you might be scared to ask for it, but if you are, then this sugar dating game is most certainly not for you.
I won’t tell you what amount you should charge. Charge whatever amount you deem yourself worthy of. Use these men, long before they get any chance to use you u for nothing.
Only after he pays your meet fee, then you can doll yourself up to go meet him at a fancy restaurant. Don’t meet him at a bar, hotel or a park. Since he is looking for a young, sweet thing like you to show off, then he needs to take you out in public places to show you off. He can’t do that inside a hotel room.
Understand that a meet fee is not a pay for play fee. NEVER agree to that. Pay for play is an escort game. If that is what he wants, then he needs to go to an escort, not a sugar baby.
If these men want you to leave the house to see them, requesting money to be sent to your PayPal or Cash app first is very reasonable. That way you can weed out the time wasters who weren’t going to pay anyway. Or even bother to show up for the sugar date anyway. It saves you a lot of time, energy and effort.
Stay On Your Sugar Baby A Game.
Stop letting these sugar daddy wannabes use manipulation to get into your head and make you feel guilty for going after their money. Don’t give them your most valued asset for free. They signed up for a sugar daddy dating website or app of their own freewill. They knew what they were getting themselves into.
No one held a gun to their heads. But now they see it fit to hold a gun to yours. If they don’t want to pay then tell them your time is valuable.
It’s not like they are seeking a wife or a girlfriend. And even then they still must pay. Men are some of the most selfish creatures on this planet. These young women are being honest about what they expect from them.
Yet these men expect them young women to hold up their end of the bargain, while they are not holding up theirs. That is rather unfair. This why I must speak up against this nonsense I see going on in the sugar dating world.
You are cheating these young women. Literally you are robing these young women of their most precious assets, all because they are in a vulnerable situation.
Real Sugar Daddies Don’t Complain.
You will never hear a real sugar daddy complain about a sugar baby only wanting him for his money. When he pursued her for a mutually beneficial relationship, he knew the terms and conditions going in. No one had to twist his arm into this relationship.
You fake ass sugar daddies really have nothing to complain about. If you had deep pockets, you would never have any issues sharing some of that wealth to help out a young woman in need of some funds.
Ladies you must create what your sugar dating goals are before going in search for a sugar daddy. That way you don’t waste time with men who only want you for your body and have no intentions of coughing up the money for showing them a great time.
If these men wanted a real relationship so bad with you, then why are they so reluctant to help you out? How can a man care about you, but stand aside and watch you suffer when there is something he can definitely do financially to help out your situation?
These wannabe sugar daddies don’t give a fuck about you when all they want is to get into your pussy for FREE. All they care about is their own sexual gratification.
What makes these assholes feel like they are entitled to your pussy but you are not entitled to their money? Your pussy is more valuable than their little pocket change will ever be. You best believe that.
Therefore you should take a page out of their books and be just as ruthless as they are. Refuse to let the run guilt trips on you. Tell them they either give you what you want or get the fuck out of your face.
If you don’t have the heart to be ruthless, then don’t waste your time and be a sugar baby then. You will be eaten alive by these sharks out there. By the time they are done with you, you will be of no good to anyone else.
You are better off getting a boyfriend with a decent career who may possibly marry you one day and pay all the bills.
Different Dating Websites Serve Different Functions.
Sign up for the right one that serves your purpose and you won’t be so damn disappointed by the results that you get.
If these men who can’t cut it as sugar daddies are seriously looking for love, that is what eHarmoney.com, OKCupid.com and Match.com are for.
If they want sex with no strings attached, that is what Tinder.com is for.
If they are looking for a sugar baby to lavish their money on, then that is what Seeking.com and MillionaireMatch.com is for.
So these men need to stop acting the fool like they had no clue what they were signing up for. You fucking knew.
Men signing up for a sugar dating website know exactly what the hell they are getting themselves into. They are not idiots. So that leads me back to my original question. How can they complain about sugar babies wanting their money when that was the whole point of them signing up to a be a sugar daddy in the first place? No one twisted your arm sir.
