How To Be A Sugar Baby Part 1? Why The Hell Are Men Signing Up For Sugar Daddy Websites When They Have No Intention To Be A Sugar Daddy?

Why do average Joes sign up for sugar daddy websites?

Then have the nerve to be ignorant and complain that the women on these sugar dating websites only want them for their money. Acting like they even have money to begin with.

What Is A Sugar Baby?

First of all, let’s explore what a sugar baby is according to Wikipedia. I love this website.

“A sugar baby is a person who receives cash, gifts or other financial and material benefits in exchange for company. It can include sex or intimacy, but it doesn’t have to. The paying partner is typically wealthier and older. A sugar baby’s male partner is often referred to not as a trick or a john but a sugar daddy, while the less-common female counterpart is a sugar momma.
The practice is sometimes called sugaring.
The online sites used for introducing people who may negotiate sugar arrangements are technically dating sites. Membership on one site in 2016 was $70 a month for sugar daddies, but free for sugar babies. What happens after the initial date, whether involving sexual or other activities, is between the parties.”

The Average Man Can’t Be A Sugar Daddy.

This is where the real issue stems from. Ever since sugar dating went mainstream, every Tom, Dick and Harry feels he has what it takes to be a sugar daddy and this is so no true. In all honesty, if you can’t cough up $10,000 a month for luxury of having a beautiful, young lady keep you company and never look back for that cash, then you don’t have what it takes to call yourself a sugar daddy.

You broke ass men feel like you are entitled to have a sugar baby on your arm, yet you don’t want to pay the cost to be the boss.

I have heard about a sugar daddy Facebook group where these disgusting and vile men are saying it is better to date a sugar baby because she is way cheaper than an escort. These men want these young women to have sex with them for $100 a pop. Sometimes even less than that amount. And the sugar baby better be happy about it or these men will get pissed off at her for daring to request more money.

Lord save all the sugar babies around the world from these cheap, ass men.

I read a sad sugar baby story on Reddit where all the sugar baby in question got for all her troubles was a milkshake. Do you hear that? A MILKSHAKE.

And then she was happy about it. That girl deserves 50 slaps to the face to wake her the fuck up. She was taken advantage of and doesn’t even know it.

Lord have mercy upon my soul, but some of you women are just not cut out for the job of being a sugar baby.

There Is No Such Thing As Free Sex.

These wannabe sugar daddies love to use the whole, “Oh I don’t want this to feel transactional,” just to escape without paying. Yet they still are not going to pay up after the sex is over. All these men want is free sex.

They see nothing wrong in getting the sex for free because it is a great benefit for them. Yet they want to get mad at these young women for looking out for their best interest while they too are looking out for theirs.

Sugar Daddy Dating Websites Need To Start Charging Premium Fees Only.

I feel like these sugar daddy websites should charge at least a $10,000 membership fee to keep the broke men out permanently. This will ensure that the sugar babies are not wasting time on men who can afford to be sugar daddies in the first place.

If I had the time and the resources, I would build a real sugar daddy dating website. These men would have to cough up a $10,000 membership fee. And if you are reading this and get mad about such a fee, that is enough proof that you don’t have the funds required to be a sugar daddy. That minuscule amount should not even make you lift one eyebrow.

There are too many men who just want to fuck and suck as many young women as possible for free and think nothing of it. This is not a mutually beneficial sugar dating relationship. Both parties must come out of this situation as equals. One should not be getting more than the other does.

What Is Your Job As A Sugar Baby?

You job is to pick the sugar that best fit all your needs. Ladies you have to vet these men for various reasons.

1. To make certain that he can afford to pay for the lifestyle that you want.
2. To make certain that he will pay for the lifestyle that you want. Just because he has the funds, don’t mean he will share it with you.
3. To make certain that he will not put you in harm’s way.
4. To make certain he won’t take you off your track.
5. To make certain he won’t waste your time.

How To Weed Out The Time Wasters?

Ladies start charging a meet fee. What is a meet fee? It is an amount you ask for in advance before leaving your home. I know some of you might be scared to ask for it, but if you are, then this sugar dating game is most certainly not for you.

I won’t tell you what amount you should charge. Charge whatever amount you deem yourself worthy of. Use these men, long before they get any chance to use you u for nothing.

Only after he pays your meet fee, then you can doll yourself up to go meet him at a fancy restaurant. Don’t meet him at a bar, hotel or a park. Since he is looking for a young, sweet thing like you to show off, then he needs to take you out in public places to show you off. He can’t do that inside a hotel room.

Understand that a meet fee is not a pay for play fee. NEVER agree to that. Pay for play is an escort game. If that is what he wants, then he needs to go to an escort, not a sugar baby.

If these men want you to leave the house to see them, requesting money to be sent to your PayPal or Cash app first is very reasonable. That way you can weed out the time wasters who weren’t going to pay anyway. Or even bother to show up for the sugar date anyway. It saves you a lot of time, energy and effort.

Stay On Your Sugar Baby A Game.

Stop letting these sugar daddy wannabes use manipulation to get into your head and make you feel guilty for going after their money. Don’t give them your most valued asset for free. They signed up for a sugar daddy dating website or app of their own freewill. They knew what they were getting themselves into.

No one held a gun to their heads. But now they see it fit to hold a gun to yours. If they don’t want to pay then tell them your time is valuable.

It’s not like they are seeking a wife or a girlfriend. And even then they still must pay. Men are some of the most selfish creatures on this planet. These young women are being honest about what they expect from them.

Yet these men expect them young women to hold up their end of the bargain, while they are not holding up theirs. That is rather unfair. This why I must speak up against this nonsense I see going on in the sugar dating world.

You are cheating these young women. Literally you are robing these young women of their most precious assets, all because they are in a vulnerable situation.

Real Sugar Daddies Don’t Complain.

You will never hear a real sugar daddy complain about a sugar baby only wanting him for his money. When he pursued her for a mutually beneficial relationship, he knew the terms and conditions going in. No one had to twist his arm into this relationship.

You fake ass sugar daddies really have nothing to complain about. If you had deep pockets, you would never have any issues sharing some of that wealth to help out a young woman in need of some funds.

Ladies you must create what your sugar dating goals are before going in search for a sugar daddy. That way you don’t waste time with men who only want you for your body and have no intentions of coughing up the money for showing them a great time.

If these men wanted a real relationship so bad with you, then why are they so reluctant to help you out? How can a man care about you, but stand aside and watch you suffer when there is something he can definitely do financially to help out your situation?

These wannabe sugar daddies don’t give a fuck about you when all they want is to get into your pussy for FREE. All they care about is their own sexual gratification.

What makes these assholes feel like they are entitled to your pussy but you are not entitled to their money? Your pussy is more valuable than their little pocket change will ever be. You best believe that.

Therefore you should take a page out of their books and be just as ruthless as they are. Refuse to let the run guilt trips on you. Tell them they either give you what you want or get the fuck out of your face.

If you don’t have the heart to be ruthless, then don’t waste your time and be a sugar baby then. You will be eaten alive by these sharks out there. By the time they are done with you, you will be of no good to anyone else.

You are better off getting a boyfriend with a decent career who may possibly marry you one day and pay all the bills.

Different Dating Websites Serve Different Functions.

Sign up for the right one that serves your purpose and you won’t be so damn disappointed by the results that you get.

If these men who can’t cut it as sugar daddies are seriously looking for love, that is what eHarmoney.com, OKCupid.com and Match.com are for.

If they want sex with no strings attached, that is what Tinder.com is for.

If they are looking for a sugar baby to lavish their money on, then that is what Seeking.com and MillionaireMatch.com is for.

So these men need to stop acting the fool like they had no clue what they were signing up for. You fucking knew.

Men signing up for a sugar dating website know exactly what the hell they are getting themselves into. They are not idiots. So that leads me back to my original question. How can they complain about sugar babies wanting their money when that was the whole point of them signing up to a be a sugar daddy in the first place? No one twisted your arm sir.

Did I Plagiarized SheRaSeven’s Too Pretty To Pay Bills Book?

First of all, I am going to post in quotation marks the nasty things they had to say about me and SheRaSeven, then I will get into what I have to say.

“Okay so I read the book. The chapters were a page or two long with typoes here and there, of course.

Sherat didn’t write it but someone else did and ripped off her stupid books almost word for word. I found the author’s old blog too. The book is basically a gold diggers manifesto and doesn’t have any real tips. She briefly wrote in the beginning about admiring an escort in London and she lost the link to her blog. Lol. There was some shade thrown by mentioning Applebee’s.”

This same person also had some shit to say about SheRaSeven.

You might be thinking well this person is a big SheRaSeven fan and she only wants to defend her. No she is not. In fact she called SheRaSeven a scammer. A few others came in saying the same thing too. And she was dropping information as if it was facts and calling it hot, piping tea.

“You asked for it and you want some tea. This old tea will be hot for you since you don’t know.

Shera was a sidebaby. Her mom had kids with multiple baby daddies. Mama dee is her half brother. Yes he’s transgender and gets very upset and violent when he’s asked about it.

Shera was a pick me and waited 7 years for her husband to get divorced. He didn’t want to leave his wife. He also had another girlfriend on the side.

Shera isn’t wealthy. She had to work and put her daughters in daycare. She filed for divorce but had to stay because she wouldn’t get a bag. He only had to pay $600 a month in child support. The divorce papers showed the cafeteria where she worked and showed that her husband doesn’t make 6 figures, but she always said she was married to a millionaire. She said here and there that james makes her split the bills. Sad.

They both have criminal records. Leticia had 2 DUI’s and a domestic battery charge when her kids were really young a couple of years ago.

She also took a break from james and hooked up with a hotep guy in Houston and allegedly learned her spiritual alchemist hustle from him.

She sends her minions including her half brother mama dee to harass and violently threaten women that even question her.

She has to hustle on YouTube. On Facebook she would sell her dirty socks for $45 a pair.

She’s a liar and a scammer. She went from sidebaby to side chick to YouTube spiritual scammer to Facebook escort madame.

Oh I forgot that. In 2018, men paid her to give them contact info to girls in her Facebook level up group. They were low key escorting and in that summer a woman was kidnapped by a john for some time. Shera left the group and gave it to her half brother mama dee to run.

There you go, the leticia "sheraseven1" padua life story.”

The Real Tea On SheRaSeven.

SheRaSeven has been asked so many times if James is a millionaire and she has been honest that he is not. Her reason for not marrying one is because one of her sisters married a NFL plyer and went through hell in that marriage. This is one of the reasons why SheRaSeven has steered clear of marrying a millionaire.

She got with James when she was 22 years old and married him when she 26. By my count that is not 7 years. James was legally separated from his wife when they met. That is another fact she has not hide. And whole her having a police record is something she talked about extensively in one of her videos.

Plagiarism Can Land You In Jail.

It is one thing for the reviewer to dissuade people from not buying my book if she felt the book was really bad. But to lie and say that I ripped off SheRaSeven’s book ALMOST word for word is a blatant lie. Unlike her lying ass, I have the receipts to PROVE they are two completely different books.

Her sorry ass better be glad I can’t wrap my fingers around her fucking neck.

While I will never deny I copied SheRaSeven’s book title ad structured the cover in a similar way, the two books do talk about gold digging but they are not no word for word book. That is plagiarism. I don’t support plagiarism.

Does this bitch even now what the hell plagiarism means? Well I am going to pull up the exact meaning in Google.

“Plagiarism is the representation of another author’s language, thoughts, ideas, or expressions as one’s own original work.
Plagiarism is not in itself a crime, but like counterfeiting fraud can be punished in a court for prejudices caused by copyright infringement, violation of moral rights, or torts. In academia and industry, it is a serious ethical offense. Plagiarism and copyright infringement overlap to a considerable extent, but they are not equivalent concepts, and many types of plagiarism do not constitute copyright infringement, which is defined by copyright law and may be adjudicated by courts.”

And for this lying ass bitch to claim that I plagiarized another author’s book is like her taking a shit on my face.

I really want readers of both books to come out and tell the truth.

While SheRaSeven and myself both touched on gold digging as the topic of our books, the content inside both books are definitely not the same. I will post the images to prove I am not a plagiarizer.

This really gets my blood boiling. How dare this bitch sit there and lie to all these people on the internet. And the only reason she knows she can get away with her lie is because she is hiding her cowardly ass behind a fucking computer screen.

Bad Book Reviews.

One of the worst book reviews I ever read was this.

“I have not read this book but I don’t like the title.”

Who the fuck cares whether you like the title of the book or not bitch? That section is for people to share their thoughts about reading the book, not for you to express your feelings about the book title.

I wish book reviewers would stop telling lies. Titles can’t be copyrighted. Look it up people if you think I am lying.

“Book Titles Typically Can’t Be Copyrighted.
The U. S. Copyright Office does not typically allow someone to copyright a book title because titles are not considered intellectual property, but are only “short slogans,” which are not eligible to be copyrighted.”

There are thousands of books with the same exact titles. That certainly does not mean that the content of these books are all the same. If I am breaking the law then so is thousands of other authors dead and alive.

At the end of the day, if my book had a completely different title on it, these people would not be making ignorant ass comments trying to compare the two books to each other.

I love SheRaSeven. But sadly I felt let down by her Too Pretty To Pay Bills books. I want more than just the definition of what certain terms means. This is what gave me the spark to go ahead and write a book of my own. This is why I made the title a bit similar to hers.

If the reader hates my book, then she just hates my book. I’m okay with that. What I am not okay with is the blatant lie about me copying another author’s book almost word for word. That is something I will not tolerate. That is just down right despicable.

I don’t know about you but I detest a lying bitch. I could lie and say she is a broke ass bitch who can’t even keep a dusty in her life for more than one week. Lucky for her I don’t believe in fighting fire with fire.

Why I Mentioned The London Escort In My Book?

The reason I mentioned the London escort was to show that any woman can use what she got, to get what she wants. But just like the London escort, she has to be smart about it as well.

You can’t just use the body alone to get what you want, that will only get you so far. You have to use your brain too. This is where so many women are failing. A combination of both is required.

Some women do turn to sex work but end up stuck in it for years or have to return to working a low-pay dead-end job. Why is that? Because they did not use their brain in the process. They did not figure out first just what amount of money they would need to upgrade their life and not just pay the bills, debts and expenses.

This London escort figured all that shit out before turning to escorting. Once she built up a good client based, she left the agency she was working for and took some of her loyal clients with her. That way, she was not giving a cut of her money away to someone else who was not working for it.

This is one of the keys to her achieving her goal in three years instead of five like she initially thought.

And I am also certain the fact that the so called reviewer mentioned the London escort is because I did not share the URL. When I used to read the London escort’s blog, I had a totally different laptop than I do now. That was all the way back in 2009 - 2010. We are not in 2020.

Is it really that hard to understand why I have no clue today why the URL even is. She must think I am withholding the information on purpose. I wouldn’t bother to mention the London escort if that was my intention. I want you ladies to see that if one woman can do it, you can do it too.

You Can Be The Judge As To Whether I Plagiarized SheRaSeven’s Book Or Not.

My book is a 13,000 word book. SheRaSeven’s book by my guestimation is around 5,000 words. So if my book is ALMOST word for word like hers, then why does my book have way more words than hers does? If they are ALMOST alike then they should be around 80% or more the same right?

Amazon Kindle held my book in review for three days. This means someone manually checked the content inside the book. If I plagiarized SheRaSeven’s book, Amazon Kindle would not have published it. They would have sent me an e-mail instead demanding I send them the copyright to prove that the book really is mine.

I don’t need to plagiarize another author’s books. Not when I have several files on my laptop filled with nearly one thousand book ideas waiting on me to pick one and turn into a book.

Was My Book Idea Inspired By SheRaSeven’s Book?

Hell yes it was. I would never deny that. I even touched on this briefly before. But I never copied her book except for the title and the cover. That is where the buck ends. The book was written completely from my head.

I bought Too Pretty To Pay Bills back in December 16, 2018. That was quite a while ago.
I haven’t even looked at it since I finished reading it. Well now I do have to open it on my Kindle to show you all how different SheRaSeven’s book is from mine.

I looked at the Amazon page online and designed my cover from there. Do you see how transparent I am being about my process? For those who don’t want to believe, that is totally okay. But before you call me a plagiarizing thief, then at least compare the books side by side first before coming to that conclusion.

Then show me the proof afterwards where I plagiarized SheRaSeven’s book. If you are going to talk about me and my books, then at least tell the motherfucking truth. That is the least these bitches can do. I can see why they have no man to pay their rent and bills for them.

Instead of using the content in my book, they rather lie on me and gossip as if they know anything about me and my book.

We are on lockdown ladies. But now is not the time to mess around and let a good chance get away from you. Level up hard now, that way when quarantine is over, you can put your best foot forward. And you can’t do that if all you spend all this time gossiping and spreading lies about people you don’t even know.

I don’t even know why the hell this reviewers is telling this blatant lie about my original book when she snagged that shit on the day it was available for free. She is the perfect example of why I detest giving books away for free.

Another bitch has come into the thread stating.

“I’ve read the original book from Shera, and it IS the same content. She was definitely scammed lol.”

I don’t know if this one read my book or not, but I am now convinced that they have not read my book at all, but are simply going off of the title of the book that is similar to SheRaSeven’s book and making false claims because they can. I am taking note that she has not said that she read my book.

Both books are very different from each other and I want those bitches to stop spreading lies on me. Cause if you put both books up against each other, THEY ARE NOT THE MOTHERFUCKING SAME. We are talking about the same subject, but that’s it.

Now I am really starting to understand why some writers sit on their books for forever and never publish them, cause when you do, you open yourself to these crazy, negative criticisms.

If they want to bash my book for the inside content that is fine. I can deal with that. But don’t go calling me a fucking scammer because I have a similar title to another book in the Amazon Kindle store. That does not make me a scammer.

There are so many other authors who intentionally or even unintentionally have book titles that are the exact same. Mine is at least slightly different from SheRaSeven’s title even though the bitch earlier had the nerve to say it was only different by one word. Clearly her ass can’t count because there is more than one word that is different.

Their asses are the ones who are trying to scam readers into believing that my book is an exact copy of SheRaSeven’s book and it is not. I love SheRaSeven. She is doing great work for women all around the world.

I will never copy her work because it can’t be duplicated. However, I want to add my voice to this discussion. This is my way of helping the women out there in need of help. Anybody who thinks I’m lying can go right ahead and buy both books and read the content inside. They are not the motherfucking same. This I can guarantee you.

Here are the links for both books.

https://www.amazon.com/Too-Pretty-Pay-Bills-Digging-ebook/dp/B076TYM54V/?tag=my30daychasuc-20

https://www.amazon.com/Pretty-Bills-Digging-Success-Deserve-ebook/dp/B086XH6V2L/?tag=my30daychasuc-20

Here Is The Proof You All Have Been Waiting For.

Too Pretty To Pay Bills: Keys To Gold Digging Success: Tips On How To Have The Life You Deserve As A Woman Book Chapters.

Being A Material Girl.
Male And Female Roles: The Alchemy of Balance.
50/50 Men.
Pick Me Chicks.
Upgrade Yourself.
How To Tell If They’re Wealthy Enough.
The Age Formula + Women Over 30 Or 40.
Meeting and Dating Wealthy Men
Keep Your Legs Closed. Get More.
How Men Seduce How Gold Diggers Seduce: How To Be Seductive And Delay Sex/Everyday Seduction  How Not To Get Emotionally Attached.
Getting To Exclusivity And Commitment.
Conclusion + Review: A Dozen Do’s And Don’ts To Attract And Date Wealthy Men.

Too Pretty To Pay His Bills; Gold Digging Success And Tips On How To Have The Life You Deserve As A Woman - Power Of The Pussy 1 (Dating And Relationship Advice For Women Only) Book Chapters.

About The Book.
Introduction.
Too Pretty To Pay His Bills.
Are You Afraid To Secure The Bag For Fear Of What Others Will Think And Say About You?
Pussy Is A Very Lucrative Business Venture.
Why Are You Too Pretty To Pay His Bills?
Why Do I Think Women Who Pay All The Bills Are Dumb?
Why Is It Better To Be A Gold Digger Than A Pickme Chick?
Why Are Broke Men Complaining About Gold Diggers?
How Do You Know When You Are Ready To Be A Gold Digger?
Why Nice Women Are Always Going To Finish Last?
Stop Apologizing For Being A Gold Digger.
Why Do Broke Men Want To Date And Marry Successful Women?
No Romance Without Finance.
The Trap Of Building A Man Up.
Following Your Goals Vs. Following Your Heart.
Be Smart And Strategic.
Write It Down, Make It Happen.
You Either Make A Plan Or You Make An Excuse.
Keep Your Goals Front And Center.
How To Date With A Purpose?
How To Find A Man With Money Who Will Provide For You?
How To Stop Feeling Bad About Taking Money From A Man?
Can You Find A Younger Man Your Age With Money Since You Find Older Men Grotesque?
Do You Have To Change Location To Find Good Prospects?
How To Prevent Yourself From Getting To Easily Attached To A Man Far Too Quickly?
When Is The Perfect Time To Ask A Man For Money?
When Is The Right Time To Have Sex With A Man?
Can You Date A Money Man Who Was Once Involved With One Of Your Girlfriends?
Should You Get Mad If Your Money Man Cheats On You?
How Can You Lose Weight And Start Your Level Up Process?
Be Happy When Dusties Show You Their Ass.
Don’t Break Your Promise To Yourself For Falling In Love With A Dusty.
Can You Marry A Man With Potential?
The Men Who Care About Your Credentials.
How To Choose The Right Money Man For You?
Can You Go After A Money Man If He Is A Celebrity?
Can You Go After A Money Man If He Is Already A Married Man?
Should You Get Married For Love Or Lifestyle?
When You Choose A Man You Are Choosing Your Future.
Money Can’t Buy Happiness.
When To Cut Your Loses With A Money Man?
Is It Harder To Fall In Love With A Rich Dude?
Should You Do Anything Sexually Your Money Man Wants You To Do?
Should You Marry Your Money Man?
Can You Tell Your Girlfriends You Are Dating A Money Man?
How To Be The Prize In Your Relationship?
Be A Pickme Chick To A Rich Man.
Do Not Accept Coffee Dates.
Should You Put Your Man’s Name On Your Bank Account?
How Do You Change A Man?
You Are Single Until A Man Marries You.
Men Don’t Love The Way Women Love.
How A Woman Wants To Be Treated By Her Man?
Conclusion.
More Books By Volly Condoleezza Black.
Write A Review.
Contact Author.
About The Author.

The chapters of both books are not even the same. And as you can see, my book covers way more chapters than SheRaSeven’s book does. Above I have posted the images to show what inside both books look like up to page 10. That should be enough proof for you the readers to compare the books side by side.